Before I started the program, I was lacking a sort of grounded, confident center to speak from in my life and relationships. A lot of apologizing for myself, or feeling bad about how I handled conversations or situations that were challenging to me.
Because I was off-center, and "feeling sorry, or bad about myself', I also often felt like a victim....which in the end created a resentful inner dialogue. It just wasn't the right combination! I knew I could do and experience better than that.
I almost didn't sign up because I was worried that I would behave and communicate better but my partner wouldn't. I was very concerned that he would "get away" with more because if I took responsibility for myself, who would make sure my partner did the same for me?
But, just the opposite happened! I became happier and more content, and so did my partner. It gave me a lot of confidence to be myself, and receive more love.
My partner and I are more intimate, open and happy together, I feel at peace even when I am having a tough day. I let stresses go more quickly and easily in every area of my life. Not just my romantic relationship.